Friendsgiving at Richards High unites students, clubs in holiday spirit

At Richards High School, Friendsgiving has become a cherished tradition, bringing students together for a holiday celebration that swaps family ties for camaraderie and community.

On Nov. 19, Richards students with a a cornucopia of interests hosted a Friendsgiving celebration, bringing together 11 clubs: the LGBTQIA+ Community & Allies, Stress Relief Club, Anime Club, Hispanic & Latino Cultural Club, Arab Heritage & Culture Club, Make a Friend Club, National Honor Society, Mathletes, the Fashion & Beauty Pack, and Student Council.

The student gathering at the Oak Lawn high school featured decorated tables, shared snacks, music, and a photo booth, offering students a chance to connect and enjoy a lighter take on the holiday season.        

“It was a great way to brighten up the holidays and bring our school together,” Percea Ball, 16, of Calumet Park, said.

On Tuesday, Nov. 19, students at Richards High School, 10601 Central Ave., Oak Lawn, hosted their own Friendsgiving for 11 school clubs.
(Photo by Kelly White)

Richards High School’s Activities Director, Debrah Swanson agreed.

“I loved that this event was created by one of our clubs in an effort to bring all students together to do something fun,” Swanson said. “It was a great way for students to get to know one another and learn about what other clubs do.”

Friendsgiving, the friendlier twist on Thanksgiving, may feel like it’s been around forever, but the origins of Friendsgiving are as varied as its celebrants.

The term first appeared in 2007 but gained traction through pop culture moments like Friends and The Real Housewives of New Jersey, economic factors like the Great Recession, and the millennial desire for a stress-free, friend-focused holiday.

Friendsgiving at Richards High began just a few years ago, thanks to the African American Cultural Awareness Club, which turned the idea into an annual tradition open to all campus clubs.

“They wanted to bring all students together in a festive way,” Swanson said. “All clubs were encouraged to sign up to participate. Since its onset, it has helped students gain a sense of belonging at Richards and it continues to everyone together in a festive and fun way.”

Clubs went all out with decorated tables and a spread of snacks—popcorn, cookies, brownies, and candy—while the school stepped in with chicken from Raising Cane’s. A DJ and photo booth turned up the festive vibes, making it a night of food, dancing, and connection.

“I really enjoyed seeing multiple clubs collaborate and getting to know what each club consists of,” Blessing Bodunde, 16, of Oak Lawn, said.

As the festivities wound down, Richards High students celebrated Friendsgiving in the best way possible—great food, good company, and no awkward family arguments over the dinner table.